In a previous article, I stressed the importance of creating Emotional Independence in your relationship in order to keep it healthy and to assure that each of you has the freedom to take charge of your own emotional well-being. While this first key can be your foundation for attaining a state of happiness in your relationship, there are two other keys to be considered that will further contribute to having a successful connection with your partner.

The second key to capturing a healthy relationship is Being True to Your Self. This means that you get in touch with your genuine feelings and you don’t deny them. You operate in alignment with your True Self – not the conditioned person you may appear to be, but the authentic You.

Of course, in order to do this, you must do some soul-searching, and some shedding of layers that no longer serve you or your Higher Truth. Instead of coming from a place where your beliefs were honed into you, find your essence and your authentic beliefs.

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Interestingly, I find that most people don’t strive towards having a healthy relationship. I hear women saying they just want to be happy with their partner, or they want to find their true love, or they want to be with the man of their dreams.

While there is nothing inherently wrong with any of these desires, it seems to me that an important part of having these desires met is being left out. What is that blatant omission?

What’s missing is the “how” of the process that would lead to their wish fulfillment. How do I create happiness with my partner? How do I create true love? How do I attract the man of my dreams?

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